I remember so well, when I was trying to start my business many years ago, I was not able to get a $40,000. business loan. I got turned down by every bank that I submitted my business plan to. When I was just about to give up on my idea of starting a business, an acquaintance told me to go and talk to a SCORE business mentor at the Small Business Administration. To make a long story short, my Mentor helped me to get the financing I needed, called the SBA Guaranteed Loan. My SCORE Mentor held my hand and guided me through the ups and downs of the beginning years of my business.
Well, things have a way of reaching a full circle. I became a SCORE Mentor two years ago because I wanted to give back to the Small Business Administration. Now I volunteer to meet and counsel young entrepreneurs who have dreams of starting their own business.
Watch me celebrate Fan Hong’s recent success!
If you liked Fan’s hand-made Initial Stamps, you can reach her here FantasticGifts2020@gmail.com to place your order. She will custom make one just for you.
Today, we in the Pacific NW are celebrating a snowy Valentines Day. Being stuck at home is not a bad idea. I’m at home practicing how to water color loose and flowy HEARTS. Anyone can do this. It’s so intuitive, using no brain power. Just get yourself a cup of hot tea, sit in your favorite corner of your house, dip your brush in the water, drop some color in the puddle of water, and get lost watching the flow of the water on your paper… so meditative.
This is my Ikigai. Enjoying small things, being in the moment, and know that this particular moment will never come again…. breath, breath…
Wishing you all a heartfelt Valentines Day! YOU ARE LOVED!
Just an update on the Artful Giving Community. The members enjoyed two Valentines workshops this month. It was so enjoyable to gather with the members on Zoom and enjoy few hours of self-care, where we let creativity flow. Want to come and join us? Contact me!
Wow, I’m still coming down from the Kaizen-Ikigai Seven Day Journey that we just finished on Sunday. The lessons were presented in small bite sized videos plus doodling and writing. I was so pleased to meet people from across the continent as well as throught United States. I received many positive feedback from the people who traveled the Seven Day Journey with me. Here’s one from Alice that surprised me but made me happy.
“I never thought washing dishes, cleaning the house and other mundane tasks would be anything more than I wanted to get over them quickly so I can do other things. Learning about the Ikigai philosophy, I now perform those tasks while really enjoying the moment. Just imagine, getting joy out of how sparkly and smooth my dishes look after I wash them with care and love. I say to myself, enjoy this because this moment will pass quickly and never return again”.
On our seventh day, we got together on Zoom and had fun talking, drawing, cutting in a very safe environment. Everyone made a vision board that was very personal to each. I was amazed at the creativity and the affirmations that were placed on each of the vision boards! Here is the one I made as an example. I’d like to show what others made, but decided not to because vision boards are very personal to each one.
The Wait is Over, Artful Giving Community is accepting new members!
Why you should join a community of like-minded people?
You will experience:
The joy of being a part of something bigger than yourself.
The joy of working towards a common goal of life-long learning.
The joy of building skills in art, positive mind-shifts, and making friends.
The safety of being vulnerable and navigate challenges together.
Come with me on a seven-day doodle art journey where you’ll make your own 2021 vision board!
What is Kaizen and Ikigai?
Kaizen is a Japanese philosophy that values lifelong learning in small incremental steps. Translated, Ikigai means “a reason for being” or “a purpose to life.” Although seemingly different, ikigai is a concept that is very much in harmony with kaizen and its underlying process of continuous improvement.
According to the Japanese, everyone has an ikigai. It is the basic principle in their life and the reason they wake up every morning; it is their secret to living a long, happy, and fulfilling life. Finding ikigai requires a deep and often lengthy search into one’s soul. In Japanese culture, this search is regarded as the most important aspect of their life. It is the point where their passion, talent, and life’s mission intersect.
Once there is a sense of purpose, people find that they are even more resilient to anything life throws at them throughout their lives. When it comes time to retire, most Japanese people are quite different from those in the Western culture in that few of them actually retire. Because their ikigai allows them to thrive in every situation, they find joy in keeping busy and remaining active throughout their lives.
After my visit to Okinawa, on the southern tip of Japan, I noticed things that distinguished their culture from others that I had previously experienced. After years of studying kaizen and ikigai philosophies, I eventually found my personal ikigai, which was helping people find their inner strength and the courage to live authentic, fulfilling, and contented lives. In simple words, “My ikigai is to support and strengthen the mindset and the skills of the people around me.” Now, as we enter a new and hopeful year, I want to share all that I have learned!
Do you want to go on a journey with me to find and make your own Kaizen/Ikigai Vision Plan for 2021? Do you want to live a happier and more fulfilling life? If the answer to both of those questions is “Yes,” then this is the right course of action for you! Here’s how to register for my FREE Seven-Day Art Journey – https://kayhirai.mykajabi.com/pl/258824
Tools needed to travel on this journey: A sketch book or loose sheets of paper, pencil, pen, colored markers, coloring pencils, crayons or anything else you already have on hand.
I will send out an email each morning from Monday, January 25 through Friday, January 29. On Sunday, January 31, we will meet from 11:00 a.m.–12:15 noon on Zoom and add the final touches to your vision board.
As you travel this Seven-Day Art Journey with me, you will uncover your gifts, passion, values, acceptance, and purpose for being. You will experience less stress, get more done with what you enjoy doing, improve your relationships with others, and learn to open up a pathway to creativity and abundance. You will reflect, draw, and write! When you have completed your journey, you will have consolidated all of your discoveries and developed your Kaizen/Ikigai Vision Plan for 2021! Bring your enthusiasm, ideas, and join me!
As we enter into the new year, reflecting back to our childhood experiences of the past years brings us many good memories as well as some that may be painful. I like to remember the fond memories and bring it with me into the new year… remembering the lessons I learned and putting them into daily practices as I go through the year.
I am sharing with you an article that was published in the North American Post newspaper a few years ago.
My childhood memories of year-end traditions while growing up in Kyushu, Japan always flood my mind this time of the year.
I went through culture shock when I arrived in America at the age of eleven and saw how differently people in America celebrated the coming of the New Year. Lively New Year’s Eve parties, waking up late on January first and watching football games on television while munching on various party foods was so foreign to me.
The older I get, the more I cherish my childhood memories and the tradition of “starting new with a fresh mindset.” It’s such a good feeling to get enough sleep and rise early on January first, refreshed to face the coming year.
These are the fond memories of my New Years while growing up in Kokura.
Starting on the first of December, Mother would say, “Keiko, we are going through each room in our house and cleaning every nook and corner. Here’s a check-list so be a good girl and do your part.” Without argument, I helped Mother clean all the shoji-screens, de-cluttered the drawers in every room and scrubbed marks off the walls.
Mother’s To Do list for me read like this:
Do you owe anybody money? Pay it back.
Did you say mean words to any of your friends? Apologize
Did you mean to do a kind act for someone? If not, do it now.
Do you have any unfinished homework or projects? Complete them.
Did you think about what you will do in the coming year to become a better person? Write it down.
After I finished my to-do list, it was time to relax and enjoy the coming of the New Year on the evening of December 31. Mother and I sat in our clean house and enjoyed eating traditional bowl of buckwheat noodles topped with grated mountain potatoes. As the slippery noodles went down our throats, we listened to the far away sounds of the temple bells as they rang out the exact number of the year we were about to enter.
Mother said, “Keiko, soba noodles are the last to enter your stomach this year. This is cleansing. You will start out the new year with a clean body and a clear mind.”
I loved getting up early on New Year’s Day. Mother dressed me in a colorful kimono and we visited the temple and prayed for a good year so as to have the fortune to maintain good relationships, health and wealth. After that, we went home, ready to have fun playing children’s games with the neighborhood children and eating traditional New Year’s food which Mother prepared.
Japanese New Years is called Oshogatsu and lasts for three days (Jan 1st – 3rd).
I take this tradition seriously and try my best to follow through as much as I can with the list Mother made for me.
Why not try to follow this list for yourself? I guarantee that it will make you feel so much better. Out with the old and in with the new!
Editor’s Note: Kay Hirai is a social entrepreneur, author and artist. This column will be regularly published in this paper, and she can be reached through www.keikokayhirai.com.
We are living in a different end-of-the year season than we are used to. Due to COVID, our lives have been forced to hunker down and hanging in for the relief to arrive. Even though, circumstances have forced us to alter the way we operate in our daily lives, nature stays right on with the preciseness of seasonal timing and changes.
Dark mornings and early nightfalls. Welcoming the seldom peek of the brightness of the sun. The sharp silhouette of bare branches surviving in the cold temperature. These are some familiar signs of winter. We often speak of turning inward during these darker months, becoming quiet and introspective, staying home more often, sleeping longer. Regardless of our spiritual or cultural heritage, if we live in North America today there’s a good chance we find ourselves caught up, perhaps involuntarily or out of habit, in a commercial swirl known as “the holidays” that leaves us depleted in more ways than one. Perhaps this year, with some preparation and planning, we can plant the seeds for a more intuitive, simpler, and natural holiday season.
The winter solstice is the day of the year with the fewest hours of daylight. After the winter solstice, days start becoming longer and nights shorter as spring approaches. Winter solstice, which takes place on December 21, can be a profound way to tune into the magic and beauty of the season. Creating a meaningful celebration of the winter solstice can help us cultivate a deeper connection to nature and family and all the things that matter most to us. Winter can become a time of feeding the spirit and nurturing the soul.
Perhaps this year, we can plant the seeds for a more intuitive, simpler, and natural holiday season. With this in mind, I created an art-card workshop that will encourage us to create together in friendship and harmony, beautiful Winter Solstice art cards. What a nice way to celebrate the coming of the new year that will bring hope, love, and joy, don’t you think?
Please join me in celebrating Winter Solstice HERE.
I hear people saying, “So many bad things are happening now. Why can’t we have some good news for a change?” When I hear such a talk, I say to myself, “If you open your mind, you will probably hear Angels whispering into your ears. Nothing is all that bad. There are so many good things happening in your life, but if you don’t believe that Angels exist, you just don’t hear their joyful whispers.”
Watch my video and let me tell you why you need Angels in your life. .. especially the Angels you make with your own hands!
Here is how you can purchase your own Angels of Joy Make-it Kit.
The price per kit is only $30. + shipping. It comes with a step-by-step video tutorial made by me. Why not buy a second one to give as a gift to a special person in your life? Proceeds will be donated to Pasado’s Safe Haven’s Animal Rescue program. They need your help.
I received this wonderful email from a client who purchased this kit. It made me sooo-o-o HAPPY!
“I was able to make these darling Angels from your Angel kit. I seriously wondered if I can even do this, knowing I have two left hands and an uncreative mind. To my surprise, they were easy to make with your detailed instructions. I decided that I’m not bad at all! I love the confidence I gained from doing this project plus I love all the Angels!”
Just who is Babs and how did we arrive at this place?
People are often astonished when they hear the news. They often exclaim, “Studio 904 Hair Salon has adopted a pet donkey named Babs? What’s up with that?
Just who was Babs and how did we arrive at this place?
Babs, who was an abused and disabled donkey who lived in her forever safe home at Pasado’s Safe Haven, an animal sanctuary located in Snohomish County, Washington. When she was rescued by Pasado’s, Babs had been used for lasso practice; people would ride around in four-wheel vehicles and practice lassoing her. After examining her, the staff discovered that she was badly debilitated, blind, and suffering from Cushings disease, an illness that affects the pituitary gland. In addition, she suffered from laminitis, a severe, debilitating ailment that affects the hooves and is sometimes fatal. Through it all, she still managed to steal the hearts of everyone who was lucky enough to meet her and used the classic donkey stubbornness to hold her own against the other strong-willed animals she came into contact with. When the salon adopted Babs, the process was extremely simple. We agreed to donate $35.00 each month to supplement her strict daily regimen of food and health care. Everything else was taken care of by Pasado’s.
Babs passed on. Before long, two rescued Donkeys, Ole and Jacque arrived at Pasados and we decided to commit to their care.
Watch the video we took at one of our visits to Pasado’s Safe Haven to visit Ole and Jacque.
We are committed to continuing fundraising for Pasado’s Safe Haven and their rescue program. I urge you to come on board and join us in this fun holiday workshop for kids and adults. Saturday, Dec. 5 at 11:00 AM PT.